The Worst Wedding Planning Advice You'll Ever Receive Part 1
When I asked you all about the worst wedding advice you'd ever received, you shared some DOOSEYS! I couldn't believe the things some of you have...
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Julianna Oates : Jan 6, 2026 10:00:00 AM
When couples tell us they’re trying to be smart with their wedding media budget, we’re always like: yes.
Because you can spend more and get basically the same results… or spend more in the right spots and feel the difference instantly.
Here’s where your dollars actually show up in your final film and gallery.
Extra time isn’t about “more footage.” It’s about not rushing the story.
The most valuable add-on hours are usually:
getting ready (the calm before the chaos)
ceremony through speeches (the emotional core)
golden hour (10 minutes = lifetime favorites)
If you’re adding time, add it where the story lives.
This is a big one. A second photo/video shooter means:
two angles during the ceremony
reactions and the couple at once
more candid coverage while portraits happen
fuller reception storytelling
Basically: your day is happening in multiple places at once. Two shooters cover it like reality.
If your film matters to you emotionally, clean audio is non-negotiable.
Great audio = a film that hits every time you watch it.
Worth-it upgrades include:
officiant mic
groom mic
direct DJ board feed
If you want to feel your vows again, put budget here.
Reception lighting changes everything, especially for video.
Good lighting turns your dance floor into a movie scene instead of a dark blur.
Think:
tasteful uplighting
controlled DJ lighting
candles / warm ambient light
If you’re the kind of couple who wants to relive the day, not just recap it, this is a real upgrade.
Highlights are amazing.
Feature films give you context, pacing, and the full arc.
trendy filters or “special effects”
extra location hopping (unless the spot is meaningful)
a longer film without better coverage
Bottom line:
Spend where it changes your coverage, sound, and story flow.
That’s where you’ll feel it forever.
When I asked you all about the worst wedding advice you'd ever received, you shared some DOOSEYS! I couldn't believe the things some of you have...
When I asked you all about the worst wedding advice you'd ever received, you shared some DOOSEYS! I couldn't believe the things some of you have...
At your wedding, you can cut *anything* you want.